Guys what do you think of my BF characteristics? Me (19) and my boyfriend (25) love each other very much and have been together for over a year now. It is adorable, caring, sweet and everything but I do not think I deserve it ...
Aside from not having my boyfriend greet me Happy Birthday (twice today and last year) making him say Happy first birthday last month (although I know he remembers, he it could not be bothered to say anything that totally breaks my heart. I have the best birthday gift this year and is a ticket to Asia to see my family and friends there and something else, it always breaks my heart knowing that he knows the issues greeting to me the most but it still lets me down: (
My boyfriend just meet me in bed, when we make love, he leaves me in a situation where I want more (he laughs, thinking it's funny how I'm going crazy), leaving us both satisfied and saying things like girls should do all the work.
First, it is selfish. He does not deserve you back if not put your fun on the same level or at a level about his own pleasure in bed. Second, it does not respect you, but realizes that he can keep having sex with you and treat you like an object rather, it gives you a wonderful birthday.
In the long run, his being selfish will not change. I hope you find someone who does not let you down. Whether it's a learning experience. Remember, you can not get your time back, so understand it sooner rather than later. You can have a conversation by saying you do not expect to change but if he wants to make a concerted effort to change, you consider staying with him.
You may want to tell him that he be selfish in bed is a deal breaker after completing the trip in Asia of the road.
Posted on May 10, 2011.
