Why do people come and go in your life as they please, even if they are close? Not that I mind much more now ... but my aunt and godmother .. So my name is Gabriele, after 11 years younger sister of my mother .. I am 46 years old now .. only 14 years younger than Gaby, my aunt and the last time I saw her and my cousin was 30 years ago at age 15. Then suddenly, she sent me a short email. I do send some pictures so she gets an idea of ae‹ae‹how I changed in the last 30 years and also a picture of my husband and cats. Like her, I'm a lazy writer .. write letters I mean, but I can not find a problem at all to send a message over the internet .. She lives in Germany .. My cousin is now 44 .. and works, but at the same time, resumed his studies and is expected to receive his degree in psychology next year .. as he studied four years now. He had already begun to study sport, art and history to become a teacher, but for these subjects there was no demand. Thus, he became an illustrator for a newspaper .. Instead, a designer .. and is now in college and works in Telecom in Germany. I do not want to disturb them. I just said my aunt also salute to my cousin, Oliver, but I'm not really surprised not to hear a lot of my aunt .. it is what kind of person who follows an impulse.
I live in Canada and my mother received a phone call from a girl I was friends with when I went to business school for 2 years .. They will have a 28th anniversary meet .. My mother told him that my husband Andrew and I first moved to the Netherlands and now live in Canada ... she just laughed and said .. ''Oh my God, if someone was going to do it would be Vera as she has been in many languages ae‹ae‹..
I hope they have fun and I wonder if I should be happy or a little sorry I can not see how everyone has changed in 28 years .. me well at the moment is not the time I want to be seen .. because, yes, I return to the weight problem .. I have not changed much as far as my face goes .. but I gained 30 pounds last year .. I am overweight at 150 pounds because I have to take drugs so I was completely exhaust and make me miss the year .. So I am responsible for weight gain .. not due to what I eat, but these drugs make me too exhausted to exercise at all and exercise is more important than eating the right foods ... without exerting a weight gain will be at 5ft4 and 150 pounds at age 46, I do not feel too happy about myself right now .. I want to be a fly on the wall .. but I could not go anyway .. it's a long flight of 3000 miles long to Germany .. I could not even be there for my 70'th mom and dad 80th anniversary last year .. They have their birthdays 4 days apart .. late August and early September was a round number for each of them .. The last time I went through was in 2005, but there is no way in the near future to go .. my husband is about to lose his job contract as Systems Network Engineer so we need to save all we have .. and he has not seen his folks in the UK for 2 years.
So I have relatives in Germany who know how to use a computer and write an e-mail .. but I guess it was something out .. I'm sure she will send two sentences to wish a Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year .. .. as strange as ... how we come and we will and we may by chance meet someone new or hear someone even when we do not even think about it more .. Anniversary same about my 28th meet business school .. I thought they would have celebrated a 20th or 30th?
Over the years, I noticed that too, with family and friends. It seems
that people are so busy and caught up with what is happening in their immediate environment as its hard to time and other contact.
People are more concerned with their immediate support system.
P.
Posted on June 4, 2011.