15th Wedding Anniversary Invitations

I am married to a sailor and we are stationed in Georgia. at our first birthday, he was deployed, so maybe it will come the first time we celebrate together. I have a friend getting married at the end of May, we're both 25 and have been friends since high school. she asked me to be the servant of the bride and I told him I would not be able to (considering it had three backup if I said "no" and there are nine girls in her party). I am standing in my cousin's wedding as maid of honor as in September and my hubs and I can not pay travel expenses again this year. I explained to him because of the distance (in Michigan it, we in Georgia) and we would not "be able to afford the cost. I never ever said flat out "I will not be at your wedding!" just told him I could not be in the party. Long story short, we never received an invitation ... another friend of mine told me that using married she would not cover the shipping because it "knew that I was not coming" ... if our friendship of 10 years is not worth 44 cents? Apart from that, I had full intentions of sending them a check! had the same intentions for the wedding shower ... totally unaware of this event too.

Facebook has made old-fashioned ways of correspondence and so out of date! Social networking should not always be your first resort for communication!

I stripped, refinished, painted (2 quarts) and stenciled characters that matched the bedding nursery on a 5 drawer chest for his daughter last summer, took me 10 days! I have returned to their home two weeks before the baby shower because my son and I had to get home in time for the return of my husband's deployment, but never more so than receiving a note thank you ... She said she knew we were in the middle of our move cross-country and did not know where to send it. that was by a friend, she never even said, "boo" about it for me!

not the point, however, I am offended not to receive an invitation ............... she and her b / f have been together since they were 15 ... as long as I know them both! they receive nothing from me ..

is it wrong?!

I do not know if I could really blame him. You kind of mentioned to her that you can not afford to travel to both the wedding and since you are going to stand up for marriage other than you for sure that you and your friends go.

She directed the sounds you do not need that social media and so has become horrible people from all over her affairs

It is not wrong. You straight up told him that "you can not pay travel expenses again this year." This translates into: "I'm sorry, but we can not afford to get into Michigan for a wedding right now."

For the same reasons you feel snubbed at not getting an invitation, I think she feels the same way about you that is not part of the procession.

None of you are not, but emotions got in the way of his thought processes. Most wives just assume they are worth something everyone has to spend part of their day. Often married simply can not understand that there are money constraints keep friends away, not to keep the friendship of friends far away. She was rude and classless for being so childish and do not send an invitation because she thought you were not going to do anyway, as a guest or a bridesmaid.

You should call and have a heart to heart chat so you can clean the air here. Otherwise, the alternative is not good .......... bad feelings and perhaps the end of a relationship.

It is quite inappropriate to send the invitation to the shower or at the reception for people who are clearly not attend the wedding, it's like a gift.